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Give great fellatio - me?

Giving great fellatio is not a difficult task once you know where to begin. First, a word about semen. You may or may not enjoy the taste of semen (salty and sour with a somewhat viscous texture) depending on your partner or your own preferences. Semen tastes different depending on the man. If you prefer not to swallow or spit the semen, you may ask your partner to signal you when he reaches the point before climax. At this point, continue gentle stimulation with your hands.

Another issue for many people is whether or not to "deep throat" or take the penis past the gag reflex in the throat. Many people have learnt how to control their gag reflex, but good fellatio does not depend on deep throating. Many men do not even notice when you do it.

So, do I just get him hard and start sucking?

Too many people during fellatio concentrate solely on the penis. The penis does contain highly sensitive erectile tissue, but there are many other sexually sensitive areas on a man’s body. Unknown to many are the pleasures that men receive from having their entire genital area massaged. During oral sex the penis can be stimulated while these other areas are massaged. Many men like to have their scrotum and testes fondled or licked during oral sex. This could be as simple as placing your hand and cupping the scrotum, or as bold as taking the testes into your mouth. The most erogenous zones on a man’s genitals include the back of the head of the penis, the line of skin that runs down the center of the testicles, and the underside of the shaft of the penis. Try stimulating these areas with your tongue as well as taking the entire penis into the mouth.

Another form of stimulation that many men like is to have their perineum stroked. The perineum is the area in between the scrotum and the anus. This area is sensitive when the male is aroused. You may like to try rigorously massaging the perineum just prior to orgasm which gives many men a rush of pleasure. Some men like to have their prostate massaged during oral sex as well. This is accomplished by placing your finger up the man’s anus. Make sure that your fingernails have been cut short and place some lubricant on your finger. Gently run your hand from the perineum to the anus and massage the outside of the anus. Push your finger in the anus with your palm up. Slowly raise your finger until you feel a bump. This bump grows throughout age; it may be the size of a golf ball in young adulthood and the size of a pear in later life. Stimulation of the prostate is an incredible sensation that amazes most men.

OK, what do I specifically do with his penis?

Now that you have learned about stimulating the areas around the penis it is time to learn about how to stimulate the penis itself. While the penis is a generally sensitive organ, there are many areas of the penis which are not particularly responsive to stimulation. When learning how to give great fellatio you must concentrate on the most sensitive areas of the penis. The first area which is particularly sensitive is the frenulum. This is the area just below the head of the penis on the underside, and is perhaps the most sensitive part of the penis. The seam of the penis which runs from the scrotum to the head, the base of the penis, and the entire head of the penis are other sensitive areas. You can concentrate on these by licking or sucking just around the particular area.

Once you have the penis in your mouth there are a couple of guidelines which will make oral sex more pleasurable for your partner and less stressful for you. First of all, most men do not like the feeling of teeth on their penis. Teeth can cause discomfort and may even rip the skin if you are not careful. There are some men who like a little bit of the friction which teeth can provide but it is best to minimize teeth to penis contact. This is easily accomplished by tucking your lips around your teeth before you perform fellatio. A way to practice is to place your lips together and teeth apart. Open your lips slowly while keeping your teeth apart and there you have it. Another important aspect of fellatio is lubrication. Most people use their own saliva as lubrication. If you are using a condom for fellatio, try to buy an unlubricated variety. Lubricated condoms tend to have a bad taste. If you'd like to try lubricant during fellatio, you can purchase a flavored lubricant to turn a normal latex condom into something tasty, or use it on its own for a unique experience.

What are the best positions for fellatio?

Finding an agreeable position for fellatio is usually not a difficult task. The key aspects are that the man is comfortable and that the person performing fellatio has access to the genitals. With an erect penis there is an additional consideration; the person giving head should be positioned so that the angle of the penis and the angle of the giver’s throat are somewhat aligned.

A common position for fellatio is when the man receiving sits or lies on a bed with his partner kneeling or lying on the ground in front of him. This gives the person who is performing oral sex complete access to the penis, scrotum and anus. The position is also at a good angle for the throat so that entry of the penis into the mouth is not a problem. (Note: if you do not like the man receiving fellatio to stroke your hair or face during oral sex then tell him beforehand. It can be extremely non-erotic if both of you are turned off by his gesture.)

Another position that may interest you and your partner is to allow the man to very carefully insert and withdraw the penis from the mouth. Typically the performer of fellatio will lie comfortably on the bed and receive his or her partner from above. If you are trying this position for the first time then it may be a good idea to have the man hold the base of his penis so that the penis doesn't enter so far as to put pressure on your gag reflex.

You may also want to try mutual oral sex in the ‘69’ position. This can be accomplished either with one partner above on all fours, or lying on each other’s sides. In the case of male-female mutual oral sex, you may want to try having the man lay on his back so the woman can better control penetration in her mouth.

Finally, if you want to learn even more, visit the book and DVD section of our online store for more in-depth resources.

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