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 Invariably, at
some point in our lives, we have all shaved some part of our
anatomy, and most of us prefer some part of ourselves hair-free.
The first time was probably tense: a sharp razor, an unsure hand,
lather and a new sensation as blade met skin. But for many of us
the result was an unforgettable feeling of silky-smooth skin,
sensitive to the touch, with all of the bare skin's nerve endings
at full attention. This heightened sensitivity and responsiveness
is what makes genital shaving so alluring. To learn even more
about shaving (and waxing) your genitals, check out the extensive
sections in my books, The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus and
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio.
However, the thought of taking a razor and effectively scraping it
across our most tender bits is enough to scare many people away
from what could be a fun erotic experiment. Or, at least, it's
likely to make you feel the same tension and anxiety as the first
time you picked up a razor and started shaving any other part of
your body. But just like shaving you'd do anywhere else, genital
shaving has its own techniques, rules and tricks for successful
de-furring -- and some important ways to avoid irritation
afterward.
 Start out by
softening the hair; take a warm bath or shower, using soap and
conditioner on your pubic region. Women should be careful to only
use the conditioner on the outside (vulva), as the perfumes and pH
can irritate the vagina's delicate ecosystem. When you're through
and dry, trim the hair with small scissors, such as mustache
trimmers, though I find that electric clippers do a terrific job
in a short amount of time. This turns the hair into shave able
fuzz, and also gives you an idea of the ground you're about to
cover with your razor -- you can see where all the hair is.
Get comfortable in front of a mirror. A door- or wall-mounted
mirror is ideal, because you can pull up a chair, spread a towel
on the seat and have a clear view. If you don't have a big mounted
mirror, you can prop up a small mirror and sit in front of it
anywhere that feels comfortable. You can even set it against the
back of your chair or against your toilet tank, and sit backwards
to face your reflection. When you get settled comfortably, check
your lighting: the light should be bright enough to see the
individual hairs, and you may need to bring in extra lighting.
Set yourself up with a cup or bowl of warm water, a fresh safety
razor and an extra towel. Use a thick shaving cream or gel. The
types designed for sensitive skin (such as
Coochy)
are highly recommended. Set the razor in the warm water to heat it
up, moisten the area you're about to shave -- vulva, scrotum,
pubic mound, anus -- and work up a creamy lather with the shaving
cream. Apply the lather (which feels pretty good, by the way) and
start shaving.
Go slowly, and try to shave in the direction the hair grows, if
you can tell. Make one stroke per area your goal -- you want to
shave with as few repeat strokes as possible. Keep your grip light
so the razor can gently follow the contours of rounded areas, and
don't press. Rinse your razor in the water after each stroke to
keep it clean. With tricky areas, such as the peaks of the outer
labia or the testicles, use your other hand to gently pull and
flatten the skin so your razor can glide over it. You'll be
surprised to find that hair grows in some unlikely places -- to
get a complete shave be sure to check just inside the outer labia
around the clitoris, and on the base of the penis.
 Watch your
strokes in the mirror, and if you start to feel like your back is
turning into a question mark, take a minute to sit up and breathe.
Shaving the anal area is tough because it's practically impossible
to see, but some people find that it's easier upside down! Try
turning around and bending over completely, so you're looking
through your legs at your butt in the mirror, and use your free
hand to pull your buttocks aside. You may think you look silly
now, but trust me, it'll feel divine when you're done.
Once you're through, hop back in the shower for a warm (not hot)
rinse. Your newly shaved delicates will feel hypersensitive when
the water hits, so just gently run your hands over everything to
remove the shaving cream. You can use a little soap if you have
some with a low pH, like glycerin, Aveeno, hand-milled or goat's
milk (all unscented). A harsh perfumed soap will irritate your
skin, which has just been stripped of all its protective oils, so
avoid harsh soaps. If you feel brave, make your final rinse cool
water to close your pores.
 Pat
dry and apply an aftershave treatment to avoid razor burn. When I
did research for the shaving and waxing sections in my books, it
seemed like everyone had a different way to deal with razor rash
-- much like when you get a cold and everyone tells you a
different home remedy that "really works." Chicken soup for a
shaved pussy notwithstanding, people swore by Neosporin ointment,
almond oil, hypoallergenic lotion, cocoa butter, calendula cream
and aftershaves. These work well for the people that recommended
them to me, but I have extremely sensitive skin that erupts in
razor burn if I get too close to the razors in a drugstore display
case. Zinc oxide creams (sold for diaper rash) work quite well;
Desitin and Aveeno (unscented) are highly recommended. A new
product on the market that works astoundingly well is something
called Tend Skin, though it's a harsh astringent and you will want
to use it sparingly. You can get Tend Skin at
Sephora.
Avoid hydrocortisone creams because they thin your skin over time.
The first few times you shave, it will itch like hell when it
begins to grow back, but this eventually stops. To help with the
itch, carry a bottle of light hypoallergenic lotion with you and
apply it as needed.
A lot of the information here may make shaving seem like a
difficult process. But many people eroticize the procedure, and
some even have their lovers help -- or do it for them. After you
first few shaves, you'll find it gets easier. Eventually, you'll
probably be able to simply shave in the shower as part of your
routine. You won't believe how a bare pussy or scrotum feels
beneath your own hands, and it feels incredible during sex --
especially oral sex and hand jobs. You'll feel it every time you
take a step, smooth skin on panties, boxers or your jeans. Enjoy
the touchable new you -- and good luck keeping your hands off of
yourself!
Note from F&E: If you wish to avoid using a razor, there are
electric shavers that do a great job as well. To learn more about
them, click
here.
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