Meet Clint Arthur, aka "Arte." He's got a video with a mission - to get you and your mate to experience earth shaking simultaneous orgasms every time. His contention is that most folks are not realizing their true potentials to have great sex, instead believing good sex is being mistaken for great sex. Through Arte's website, seminars, and video instruction, he believes great sex is within reach for everyone. With that lofty goal in mind, I sat back and hit the play button. And I must admit, by the end even an old dog like me had learned some new tricks.

The basic premise of New Sex is the stimulation of the infamous G-spot. But it goes much further. Arte explains (much of the video is him speaking directly to  the camera/us) that we can't just attack the G-spot and expect success. First, a few preparations are in order. Arte contends that the woman must be very relaxed and "ready" to accept this kind of stimulation. Trust, relaxation, and patience are in order to "prime the pump" as he puts it. This means that New Sex should start well before the clothes come off. Dinner, sexual innuendo, teasing, and playfulness are all encouraged and, once we do hit the sheets, a long massage should be standard operating procedure. To drive the point home, Arte himself is seen in explicit footage literally practicing what he preaches. He demonstrates some basic massage techniques and points out when and where to touch your mate. Finally, after all of the lessons are dispensed, Arte and his comely partner go the whole way toward climax for us to watch.

To be honest, I already exceed most of Arte's suggestions as far as massage/foreplay are concerned. But, before I viewed this tape, I had never attempted a G-spot orgasm with Eddy. And, following his step by step approach, she did indeed experience her first ejaculation! It was even better than he described. Another point:  what he is  also saying is that we men should change our  "slam bam thank you ma'am" tactics and focus more on HER pleasure as a source of OUR pleasure. I commend him for this and recommend his tape highly, though I suggest the male view it privately first. Sometimes, it's nice to spring surprises. To learn more, visit Arte's website at http://www.newsex.org .